EP5 I'm sorry! 对不起
What is “关系”? How can good "guanxi" be created and maintained? When people say“没事,没关系”, Do they really mean “nothing?”
Part I Chinese 101
Dialogue
A:对不起!
Duì bù qǐ!
I’m sorry!
B:没关系。
Méi guān xì.
You’re welcome.
A:抱歉,我错了!
Bào qiàn ,wǒ cuò le !
Sorry, I made a mistake.
B:没事,我原谅你。
Méi shì ,wǒ yuán liàng nǐ 。
That’s all right. I forgive you.
Words & Expressions
【没】méi; not, have not
*Grammar: we often use “没” to mean the result has not realize: “没+ V+ C(resultant complement)” which teachers who teach in Chinese school in China always talk about.
【了】le;
* Grammar: when we use the resultant complement, we often add “了” after the resultant complement to show the change and realization of the verb.
* Grammar: There two forms of a question about resultant complement: “V+C+了吗(le ma)”、“V+C+了没有(le mei you)?” which teachers who teach in Chinese school in China always talk about.
你吃了吗?/ 你吃了没有?Ni chi le ma? Ni chi le mei you?
你听懂了吗?/你听懂了没有?Ting dong le ma? Ting dong le mei you?
你错了吗?/你错了没有?Ni cuo le ma? Ni cuo le mei you?
买了吗?买了没有?Mai le ma? Mai le mei you?
【对】duì; right; correct
【错】cuò; wrong; mistake
对不起,我错了. Duìbùqǐ, wǒ cuòle. Sorry, It’s my fault.
你是对的,我错了。Nǐ shì duì de, wǒ cuòle. You’re right, I’m the wrong one.
【事】shì: matter; thing; item; work
没事 mei shi. It dosen’t matter.
一件事yi jian shi; one thing
这件事zhe jian shi;this thing
【抱歉】bào qiàn: to be sorry; to feel apologetic; sorry!
【关系】guānxi;relation; relationship; connection
这件事跟你没有关系。It’s nothing to do with you.
我们的关系很好。We have a good friendship/Relationship.
【原谅】yuán liàng;to excuse;to forgive;to pardon
我原谅你了。Wo yuan liang ni le. I forgive you.
Part II: Language Tips
What is “关系(guan xi)”? How much efforts you will put in maintain “guanxi” in your social life? How can good "guanxi" be created and maintained? (Discussion, differences betwwen East and West)
When people say“没事,没关系”, Do they really mean “nothing?”
Part III: Story of the Day
唇亡齿寒：If the Lips Are Gone, the Teeth Will Be Cold
唇亡齿寒
chún wáng chǐ hán
If the Lips Are Gone, the Teeth Will Be Cold
More than 2000 years ago, during the Spring and Autumn Period in ancient China, a book titled "Zuo Zhuan左传" recorded a true story of a diplomatic struggle between two noblemen. The motto of the story is that common benefits between partners should be valued.
在中国的春秋时期,大约2000多年以前,一部名为"左传"的史书记录了一个有关贵族争斗的真实故事。故事揭示了一个简单的道理,我们应该重视与伙伴的共同利益。
Literal meaning: If the lips are gone, the teeth will be cold
Explanation: Two people or things that share a lot of common benefits
E.g
你必须要救救他的公司。你们之间有很多业务往来,唇亡齿寒,假如他的公司倒闭了,你的公司在金融风暴中也存活不了多久。
nǐ bì xū yào jiù jiù tā de gōng sī 。nǐ men zhī jiān yǒu hěn duō yè wù wǎng lái ,chún wáng chǐ hán ,jiǎ rú tā de gōng sī dǎo bì le ,nǐ de gōng sī zài jīn róng fēng bào zhōng yě cún huó bú le duō jiǔ 。
You have to save his company! There are many business contracts between your companies, if the lips are gone, the teeth will be cold. If his company closes down, your company won't survive long during this financial crisis!
